We left the Orange River to head for the Fish River. Our experiences at this campsite with the Nama family and at the Nama school are unforgettable and definitely highlights of the trip. At the Fish River we were again without running water and had to bathe in the river, but it was all part of the adventure! Also, this campsite was probably the hottest of the entire trip- 110+ during the day in the sun!! We were all so happy to have the river to swim in and it’s hard to believe that that river is not even there sometimes due to the lack of rainfall.
On our full day at the camp some people chose to hike a volcano in the early morning, but 9 of us chose to stay back and have a lazy morning. The previous day on my way down to bathe in the Orange River I lost my footing and cut my big toe pretty badly and had a very bruised toenail so I thought it was best for me to not go on an intense hike. But it was a great morning because we slept in some and had a nice swim in the river without many people around. Later that afternoon, around 4 when it was finally starting to cool down a little bit, after all of the others got back, we set out to visit the Nama family.
We first met Jackson, a 17 year old boy who spoke good English because he had studied it in school. Jackson failed grade 10 last year and by law, he was not allowed to attend school anymore unless he started to pay and clearly this Nama family and many others do not have the extra money to pay for continued schooling. Then we met a woman, man, and 2 younger children. The woman, India, was relatively young and wore a pretty pink dress, but had very old and worn out shoes. She had the beautiful almond shaped eyes and high cheekbones that are characteristics of the Nama people. She was not actually Jackson’s mother but because Jackson’s mother had passed away, India was serving in her place. The man was named Old Frans and he was much older than India; we learned that he had to be older than 65. The two other children were Elena, 10 months, and Nelson, 2 years. They were so cute and it was obvious that even though they were not biologically Jackson’s siblings he loved them so much. There are also two more children in this family who are Jackson’s biological siblings. They are 15 and 16 and are still in school. They board at their school and live in a hostel during the week and each Friday, Jackson takes the donkey cart to the school to pick them up for the weekend. He said that he misses them during the week and is always excited for the weekends. We visited them on a Thursday so he was going to pick them up the following day!
What is unfathomable to me is that this family lives off of $400 Namibian per month, which is about $57 US. I cannot believe that they are living off of basically nothing and have a family of 7 to support. If Old Frans was not older than 65 and did not receive money from the government, they would have a monthly income of nothing. They told us that they used to have 30 goats and in Namibia goats are essentially the same thing as a bank account in the United States and each goat can be worth between $400-$600 Namibian, but that all of their goats had been stolen. I was expecting them to say that their goats had been stolen just a few months ago, but it has been 5 years since they were taken meaning they have basically been living on nothing since well before either of the young children were born. Our group had such an immediate connection with this family realizing how raw their suffering is and that they were not lying to us or trying to make their lives sound worse than they are. Although the Nama family was struggling however, they did not seem too sad or depressed. I guess they just tried to pick up the pieces and move on to live with what they had which seemed to be a loving family. Burger invited the family to come eat dinner with us that night which was a treat for us and them! We had a typical meal for us of chicken, pasta, and squash, but to them it was a feast and they thoroughly enjoyed it. It made me realize that I need to be more grateful for the things I take for granted, like a hot meal, because there are so many people in the world who do not have that.
Not only did we have dinner with the family, but we also gave them a gift. Thanks to the Charity Challenge and the money given by Wofford faculty we were able to help this family out in the best way we saw possible. We realized that if they had new goats then that would be a start to a brighter future. Although we wanted to give them actual goats so that we knew what the money was spent on, it was impossible for us to have goats in our possession before it was time to leave so we ended up giving the family about $200 US which would be enough for about 3 goats. They were all so happy with this gift but Jackson was the most excited because he will be the one to take primary care of the goats to raise them and to breed them to hopefully build a big herd again.
The next day we took some of our leftovers to the Nama family and Old Frans who had not shown too much emotion the day before had a smile all the way across his face. It was obvious that he had woken up and realized that they truly were going to be able to have a better life. Then we drove to a Nama school in a nearby town. It was recess so there were kids everywhere in their blue school uniforms. They were so excited that we were there to take their pictures. They loved posing for us and then looking at the picture on our digital cameras. This was our first of two school visits. Then we set out driving again to the sand dunes!